A lot has been written about love and relationships, and of course, the red flags you need to watch out for. But sadly, not much gets surfaced when it comes to the green flags in a relationship. It’s about time, don’t you think?
The world isn’t just filled with grief, sorrow, cheaters, and sly people, right? There are people who bring in positivity and give new meaning to the relationship. Amidst all the negativity, here’s a list of green flags that you gotta look for in your significant other that makes them a keeper.
1. If they accept your romantic past gracefully and don’t bring it up during every fight or argument.
2. If they don’t make you or expect you to act according to their whims and fancies, don’t let them go.
3. If they respect your family as much as they do their own, don’t leave them. With respect comes great responsibilities.
4. If they don’t nitpick everything you do or every tiny little mistake you make and laugh at them with you, they are the one.
5. If they are humble and respectful towards the working class, you know the person has been brought up well.
6. If they are a patient listener and aren’t always trying to prove themselves right by dominating a conversation, they are for keeps.
7. If they don’t mind switching roles and don’t believe in strict gender roles. Marry them!
8. If they understand you and accept the way you are without asking to make certain adjustments or compromises to fit in.
9. If they can read your gestures and understand what you want or what you are trying to say, even in a crowd of 100 people, that’s the best kind of relationship ever.
10. If they make you feel protected, secure, and confident in their company, nothing beats that.
11. If they put you first and hold you above everything else, you can’t find a better partner than them.
12. If they understand and respect your goals and help you push boundaries, they are the one.
13. If they don’t shy away from accepting their fault and put in efforts to rectify the mistake. It’s all about putting the efforts end of the day, right?
14. If you don’t need to fabricate or put any filters to your statements while speaking to them, they are soulmates.
15. If they go out of their way to make you and everything around you comfortable, they are gold!