Are you someone who trusts people too easily and gives in too early? So, let’s just start by saying that there’s nothing called falling in love too early. Love is not time-bound, because when you know, you just know. The length of time spent with a person doesn’t dictate the intensity of your feelings for that person. You can be with a person for years and still not fall in love, and then you may fall in love with a person you have just met. Love is love, it doesn’t come with any calculations or analyses.
You are often scared of how you will be perceived in the public eye for having fallen for someone so quickly. We’re here to tell you: DON’T BE! Sure it can happen that you encounter the wrong guy and things may not go as smoothly as expected–but that’s not your fault. You are not to be held accountable for trusting someone and loving someone. However, if you have already borne the brunt of having trusted and loved someone, and have learnt the lesson the hard way, here’s the thing. Next time onwards, you need to be a little careful. But hey, that doesn’t mean you refrain from falling in love again. It only means you believe in the concept of the glass being half empty. Because you simply refuse to see the bad in a person and are more keen to focus on the good things about them. So much so that you don’t care about getting hurt eventually. Red flags? What are those? You believe more in overlooking all the red flags and try your best to make it work. Well, isn’t that a positive thing?
Not only that, you are too giving and forgiving by nature. Just like you fall in love too easily, you forgive people easily too. You don’t hold grudges and instead believe in being the bigger person. When you face betrayal, instead of blaming the person who betrayed you, you prefer finding faults in yourself. You immediately start thinking that the problem is in you.
We urge you to not think that way because there’s absolutely no wrong in trusting people. It just shows you get attached easily. The fact of the matter is you aren’t ashamed of letting your feelings out and that’s a great thing. You will have people around telling you that “Hey! You’re rushing into it!”. But always remember–it’s only YOU who gets to decide whether you are rushing into it or not. Whether your heart is in place or it’s just another mere attraction–it’s only you who knows that. Love in today’s world is no more a suppressed emotion, it’s a lot more vocal and loud. So all you lovely ladies out there, don’t be ashamed of falling in love too easily. What’s meant to stay will stay, irrespective of how early or late you fall for it. Celebrate love. Cheers!
