Relationships are significant in our lives. Feeling loved and having a sense of connection contribute to our overall well-being. However, not all relationships are healthy and make our lives better. A famous Gen-Z term doing rounds on social media is called ‘red flags’ in a relationship. Red flags in a relationship basically mean all the toxic and unavoidable traits of a relationship or partner that make things worse.
What do red flags in a relationship mean?
Red flags are warning signs that indicate a toxic or manipulative relationship. They are not identical at first, but after a while, they can be problematic in a relationship. These red flags are basic behaviours of an individual in a relationship that make it toxic and rather unbearable;e.
When you encounter a red flag in any relationship, it is best to either part ways or pause and reflect on the bond you share.
7 red flags to watch out for in any relationship
We have listed 7 important red flags to watch out for in any relationship.
1. Controlling behaviour
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• One of the most common red flags in a relationship is over-controlling behaviour, also known as possessiveness.
• People who try to control your movements, decisions or beliefs are people who can never love you.
• If a girl or a guy is trying to control what you wear, where you go or your opinions, it is considered a big red flag in a relationship.
• Controlling behaviour is a big no in any relationship.
2. Lack of trust
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• In any relationship, trust works as the pillar of foundation. A sign of an unstable or toxic relationship is a lack of trust.
• If your partner or even a friend often questions your actions, then there is a problem.
• If you and your partner also doubt each other, leading to fights and arguments, there’s something wrong and you need to talk about it.
• Lack of trust in a relationship is a big red flag, as a healthy relationship requires trust from both sides.
3. Low self-esteem
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• A relationship is supposed to make you a better person.
• People around you make you a better version of yourself and always motivate you to do better.
• However, if your partner breaks you down instead of building you, it’s a big red flag.
• When you are in love with someone, you are supposed to support them. However, if you feel your partner is demotivating you, then it’s a big red flag.
4. Anger management issues
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• Anger is a common personality trait, but if a person has anger management issues, it is very problematic.
• If someone close to you has anger management issues, you might feel threatened or unsafe around them.
• Lack of emotional regulation is a big red flag, and if you are surrounded by someone who has poor anger management skills, it’s time to part ways with that person.
• Anyone– a man or woman, who uses anger as an excuse, is nothing but toxic.
5. Narcissism
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• A narcissistic personality indicates toxic behaviour and is also a mental condition.
• The behaviour indicates self-obsession and a misplaced sense of importance.
• If your partner is narcissistic in any way, it’s a big red flag.
• Any narcissistic behaviour can be harmful – both physically and emotionally.
• Narcissist people believe that the world revolves around them and they are superior to everyone.
• They will often treat you badly, leading to toxicity.
6. Codependency
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• Codependency is another toxic trait to watch out for.
• It is also known as emotional labour, which people often consider a green flag, but it isn’t.
• Codependency in a relationship often leads to emotional exhaustion as the other person is always dependent on you for all the support and encouragement.
• Codependency or ‘relationship addiction’, also happens when two people exclusively depend on each other for emotional, psychological and physiological issues.
• This is considered a toxic trait and hinders personal growth in a relationship.
7. Constant jealousy
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• A little bit of jealousy here and there is very common in any healthy relationship.
• But if you or your partner are constantly jealous of each other’s connections, friends, etc., it’s a matter of concern.
• Jealousy can lead to toxic relationships and also results in emotional and mental exhaustion.
• If your partner is constantly checking up on you and has a problem with every other person you hang out with, it’s a big red flag.
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