Marriage brings with it a lot of changes as well as challenges. Life isn’t the same after, even if you are married to the love of your life. A few years later, you start thinking about the initial years you spent with your spouse before marriage. Your mind constantly draws goes to how things have changed between the two of you post marriage. It’s human and it’s absolutely normal to think that maybe the love, romance, and spark has gone.
You feel that life has become too monotonous, where you fondly recall the good old days and crib about the lost spark in your marriage. Now that doesn’t mean you have stopped loving your partner. You love them just as much as you did before marriage, and maybe even more. It’s just that the way of expressing the love has changed, but the love isn’t lost. They say don’t stop dating your wife and never stop flirting with your husband, for a reason. Here’s how occasionally flirting with your husband can help you rekindle all the lost spark and adventure in your relationship.
1. Ask him out
Just because you are married doesn’t mean you stop going out for dates. A great way to initiate is to ask him out for a date, just the way you did it for the first time. It’s bound to take you guys back in time, giving you a moment to realise how magical it was to fall in love with each other.
2. Slip into his shirts
Oversized shirts always look sexy. Even better when you take his favourite white shirt out of his closet and surprise him one night. Get cozy and snuggle all night! Ahem… ahem…
3. How about a strip game?
C’mon ladies. You guys have done it before and you already know how things spice up by the end of the game, don’t you? *wink* Don’t miss out on wearing some sexy lingerie. You know what we mean, right?
4. Get naughty with the texts
You need to behave like a girlfriend at times and trust us, it works wonders for your relationship. Even if you two are in the same room or the couch, just drop a flirty text. This works best when you are at a social gathering, surrounded by tonnes of people where you can’t wait to get home and get your hands on each other.
5. Footsies, FTW!
Remember when you two were dating, playing footsies at restaurants under the table was your fave thing to do? How about you get back to doing the sweet little nothings?
6. Some roleplay, maybe?
If you and your partner are comfortable with the idea of role-play, go for it! Erotic roleplays always leads to great sex, and spices things up for you and helps you get over the monotony you may be struggling with.
