Neena Gupta has been through the mill when it comes to her love life. While the actress has always been lucky in her career, the romantic relationships she’s been involved in have always led to disillusionment. Now of course, from the looks of it, Neenaji has finally found a happy place with her husband Vivek Mehra, whom she serendipitously met on a flight; but the paths that led her to where she is were now were definitely not the easiest.
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A while ago, Neena had kickstarted a fun Sach Kahu Toh series on her Instagram, where she shared videos and pictures with loaded captions, talking about various nuances of life. In one such post, the actress shared some advice with women, telling them never to get involved with a married man as it seldom leads to something concrete.
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“He told me that he doesn’t like his wife, and they haven’t been getting along for a long time,” she wrote, referring to a cliche line that all committed men looking to have an affair say. Further, sharing how an affair of that sort typically goes, she spoke about the beginning — where they lie to you, telling you their relationship with their wives are unfulfilling, leading you to slowly empathise and fall in love with them. She said, “You fall in love with him, he is a married guy. Then you say ‘why don’t you separate?’ but, they say ‘no, no there are kids, I don’t feel like now, let’s see what happens, maybe someday’. So you start meeting secretly and go on holiday, but he finds it tough as he has to lie about his plans.”
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She added, “Then you say that you want to do a night stay as well and then you go to a hotel and spend the night. Then you want to spend more nights together and ultimately you want to marry him. You push him to divorce his wife but he says. ‘Wait for some time, I am working on it, it’s not so easy, there is property, there are bank accounts etc., etc.” Now you are getting panicky, frustrated and you don’t know what to do. You eventually think about leaving him as you don’t want to get into so many complications. He says FO (f*** off) to you. Then what do you do?”
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Neenaji concluded by saying, “Do not get involved in all this, do not fall in love with a married man. I have done this before, I have suffered. That’s why I am telling my friends, you all, try not to do it.”
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No happy endings here
A married man making a pass at a single woman no longer shocks the world, and just that speaks volumes for itself. No, we’re not making a generalisation here, and we absolutely believe that good, loyal men still exist. However, having said that, they are a rare find, and with all the evolution in terms of lifestyle and relationships in the modern day — it’s safe (and disheartening) to say that the concept of monogamy is heading speedily towards extinction.
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Watch your back, ladies! These guys are the ones who shower us with forehead kisses and suck all the sense out, in the bargain!
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