First relationships are often exciting, interesting, and messy. There are many firsts to look forward to, and the first night of sex is one of the most anticipated moments for a lot of people. Many wonder whether sex is important in a relationship, and others think about how to make that first night blissful.
There are always some common thoughts that go on inside a person’s head when that important, first night sex is concerned. Here are some things you might have thought about as well!
1. The promise of later
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“I just kept thinking about how awesome it’s going to be to jerk off to the image of me having sex for the first time with my incredibly attractive partner in my head later.”
2. Practical things
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“The one unforgettable thought that kept annoying me was that I was wildly unprepared for how hard a penis can get. Like, I’m not sure why but before I touched a penis for the first time, I just thought it would have a banana consistency or something? Young me was stupid, and my first night sex was strange because of pre-concieved notions about the hardness of a penis.”
3. The end and not the journey
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“Before the first time I had sex, I had watched a lot of porn and read about a lot of stuff on the internet. My takeaway was that if i cum inside my partner, it would mean instant pregnancy and that would be that. All I could think about before getting down and dirty was ‘don’t cum inside, don’t cum inside, don’t cum inside!’”
4. Overthinking is an art
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“I was so preoccupied with what’s going to happen. Will I take off my own clothes or will they do it for me? Should I kiss first or should I let them take the initiative? Right till the moment before having sex for the first time, all I could think about were ‘what ifs’ and trying to solve the fake scenarios in my head, just in case.”
5. To shave or not to shave
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“I couldn’t decide whether I should shave or not. It was my first night with a new person so I thought I should leave a good impression, but also it felt like a lie because I didn’t want to be fake while beginning our relationship.”
6. Unbelievable circumstances
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“The first time I had a one-night stand, all I could think about all the way to the hotel was ‘OMG OMG OMG we’re really doing this.’ The only other thought that wouldn’t leave my head was ‘what underwear am I wearing?’ Note: it was super ugly, but the night was great.”
If you’re wondering how important is sex in a relationship, you should know that it can make or break a newly forged connection. Mental and emotional attachment is critical, of course, but a lot of people don’t pay enough attention to the physical connection when it comes to new love.
You can find tips, advice, and everything you need to know when it comes to first night sex with a quick online search. It is something we should not be ashamed of, and talk about more openly so women can have better and more wholesome experiences!
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