You may have heard about the upsides and downsides of all kinds of relationships through the grapevine or at a random round of drinks with your mates. Be it criticising the dynamics of a causal relationship or discussing new revelations in a marriage, there are no lengths as to how romantic relationships can surprise you. For instance, long-term relationships may come across as ever-lasting bonds that stand the test of time, but they are upshots of years of compromise, clashes, and cold silences.
Here are some of the truths about long-term relationships that stay between the sheets and the partners.
1. You will go to bed angry
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The self-affirming belief of ‘never going to bed angry’ may not always come to your rescue while resolving fights with your partner. You will face a few fights that will consume your days and nights. It does not translate into a fact that all the fights will be unresolvable for longer periods of time. It depends on you and your partner as to how you settle issues.
2. Forgiveness plays a key role in long-term relationships
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It’s a given that you cannot escape arguments in a relationship. But one of the true secrets behind long-term relationships is the ability to resolve a conflict and forgive your partner. Again, it does not apply to every type of scuffle. At times, you will be faced with tough decisions that do not end in forgiveness. Learn to determine such situations to ensure a long and healthy relationship.
3. It’s okay to question your relationship
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Questioning your long-term relationship does not always mean that you’re having second thoughts about your partner. It’s common, specifically in long-term relationships, to question the status of your relationship and where you stand in your partner’s life. But be careful about how frequently you question your relationship.
4. Do not underestimate the power of personal space
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It’s true that as your relationship progresses, your and your partner’s need for personal space will also surge. In fact, it’s a healthy practice to respect your partner’s personal space. It paves the way for growing individually in the relationship. You may not always feel the temptation to be with your partner. It’s completely normal to bask in your personal space, especially in long-term relationships.
5. Focusing on individual growths is key
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If you want to be happy in your relationship in the long run, you should be happy by yourself first. That means you must not stop focusing on your growth in a relationship. It’s key in any relationship to grow individually while being together. Take time out for self-care, concentrate on your professional and social lives. It’s important to remind yourself that your relationship will grow with you.
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