Breakup sex is often considered the best medium for closure. Of course, it mostly happens in cases where couples decide to call it off on mutual terms. But come on, let’s be a bit more real. It’s not really the best decision, as nobody tells you the cons of breakup sex.
Especially for those who are not very strong emotionally, breakup sex is not really a very great idea. However, some believe that, it helps you process the emotions of separation in a more intense and compassionate way. Well, actually, it differs from person to person. As we say: to each her own. But for all those emotionally weak souls out there, here’s something you need to know about breakup sex . Read on…
1. You don’t need to do it
There’s no such thing like you have to do it! It’s not a hard and fast rule. Just because a friend of yours had breakup sex and felt it was the perfect closure for her, doesn’t mean it will be the same for you. Keep in mind, there are no trial runs. It’s not a dress that you can try it on before paying for it. It’s a whole bunch of emotions that need to be processed in a certain manner, and definitely in a more mature way.
2. It may be great, but maybe not!
People often say that their breakup sex was the best sex they ever had with their partner. It may be, we ain’t denying that. But didn’t you just decide that you don’t want to be with your partner? If the sex is still great, it may leave you confused, trying to reconsider your decision. But if you’re headstrong irrespective of how good or bad your breakup sex turns out to be, it won’t affect your decision–then go ahead.
3. That awkwardness later
Believe it or not, no matter how much you try to escape that awkwardness later, you just can’t. That certain kind of awkwardness and discomfort will persist. Trust us, it’s even worse than a one night stand.
4. You’ll keep thinking about it
So you decide to end a relationship, and immediately after jump into bed with your partner with whom you just called it quits. Hmmm… doesn’t it seem like that perfect situation to go mad overthinking about? As a result, you also won’t be able to let it go. You’ll fail to get over it for a very long time as the way you felt with your partner that very last time will dominate your thoughts. That touch, that smell, those unheard and unsaid words will keep hounding you.
5. It will complicate things, no matter how much you deny it
You know this: breakups are never simple. You are already in a complicated situation. Why would you want to mess it up even more? You may have the best orgasm ever, but think about it. Would you prefer to let go of that one orgasm, ease your mind, and erase all the uncalled frustration; or make the situation even worse for yourself?
