Marriage is a big deal. After all it involves a lot of work and it is called a milestone for a reason. So it’s always better to know everything about the man you are going to spend the rest of your life with. But that’s not always possible especially with the arranged marriage set-up where people hardly know their partners before agreeing to tie the knot. Here are 13 such questions every girl wants to ask her future husband (in an arranged marriage set-up), but can’t because they believe it’s too bold.
1. Have you had sex before? With whom?
This is always the ignored territory where both parties will behave naive. But let’s face it, most probably its already happened and you are dying to know about it.
2. Did you ever have a one-night stand? Are you in favour of the concept?
This is especially important if you’ve had one.
3. Do you have a problem with how I dress? Will you object to me wearing dresses or revealing clothes?
Well, clothes can become a big issue later on where he’ll probably tell you not to wear shorts or skirts, etc. Wouldn’t it be better to know if that’s a concern?
4. Can you cook? Or will you expect me to do it all the time?
Men who cook are a dream. And they make life so much easier for women. So I am sure you want to know if you are lucky enough.
5. I want to be a working woman all my life. Is that alright?
If you are the career woman who cannot stop working then this one is very important for you.
6. You’re a great guy then how are you still single?
Come on, this mystery needs to be uncovered, right?
7. Do you have girl besties? How close are you with them?
Ahem ahem… you must always evaluate your competition.
8. Are you a God-fearing person?
This is the one thing that will decide if he wants you to wear a ghunghat and go to the temple or chill in your hot shots.
9. Are you in touch with your exes?
An affirmative answer could mean trouble.
10. What’s your equation with your family?
Not that you want it to be bad but testing the waters is good.
11. Where are we going to live? With your family or alone?
That is going to decide your future happiness. So yes, it’s important.
12. Do you have an addiction I should know about? Smoking, drinking, gambling?
But really, nobody is ever open about these things.
13. Were you excited to meet me or were you simply forced into it by your family?
Now that’s the most difficult one, but something that really needs to be answered; if only you could ask!
