Being in a long distance relationship is one of the hardest things in the world. There are countless adages about “out of sight, out of mind,” but the one that most lovers hold on to is the oft-quoted “distance makes the heart grow fonder”. Being away from the person you love can be a daunting task. However, there are small things that one can do to keep in touch and keep the magic of love alive.
Here are some little tips and tricks on how to keep a long distance relationship interesting.
1. Keeping in touch is important
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Touching base at the start of the day or ending the day with a goodbye is super important. Communicating regularly helps, even if it is just a few texts throughout the day. What’s more is that it can help you sail through a rough day.
2. Give each other space too
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At the same time, talking too much and oversharing can become a problem in the long run. It’s not wise to be overprotective or ‘clingy’. It is hard to stay away from your partner for a long time, but any good relationship is based on trust, and this is tested more than ever in a long distance relationship. Don’t forget to give them (and yourself) that much-needed space.
3. Don’t be secretive…about anything
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You shouldn’t overshare, yes, but there is no reason to keep secrets. Tell your partner about your day, life, and just things in general. Sharing things helps two people become more intimate. This will not only help your emotional connection but your physical relationship as well!
4. Find a ‘personal’ gift
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If your partner lives far away, it would be nice to have something that reminds you of them when you’re missing them. The opposite also holds true. Find something that is not common but personal to both of you—a trinket that can remind both of you about the bonds you share. This will help through the tough times.
5. Get creative about communication
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Communication is key, but the same old routine can get a little repetitive and boring. Every relationship needs to stay fresh and fun. There are many ways to be creative about how you contact each other in a long distance relationship. Sexting, video calls, and surprise visits can go a long way when it comes to keeping the love alive.
6. Do things together
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Even though you can’t go on real dates, there is no one stopping you both from being together. You should plan creative and fun ways to do things together. This will help you learn about each other while enjoying the company. Video calls are a boon to modern relationships. You can have online dates, watch movies together, read books, or even go on a museum tour online! Technology really helps keep people together; you just have to know how to use it.
Being in a relationship with someone who is too far away can become tiring and disheartening after a while. However, the important thing is to make sure you trust them, and work together on your bond.
Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? How did you get through the rough patches? We’d love to hear your stories!
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