Popular opinion states that women never initiate sex, but let’s flip the coin and change the game, shall we? Sex is a two way street, and while it’s great to do what we like in bed, sometimes it’s also fun to pleasure (and surprise, every now and then) your partner. It’s no secret; a majority of men LOVE it when their woman takes the driver’s seat and spices things up in the bedroom. If you’ve been meaning to initiate something that will get your man riled up in all the right ways but don’t know where to start, don’t worry – we’ve done the homework for you…
1. Get Down And Dirty
This may not be your most favourite thing to do, but there’s not a man who can deny loving it. Going down on your man and doing it the right way can be more arousing than you can imagine; so shed your inhibitions, throw him back and show him how you can enable one hell of a good time!
2. Get On Top
One of the best ways to take control in bed is to get on top! Now, there are different ways to do this and the one where you get on top only to kneel while thrusts upwards, is not what we’re talking about! Whether it’s regular cowgirl or the reverse style, that’s what will make you the star of the show and him, your highly impressed and aroused audience.
3. Get Creative
Let alone missionary, even the doggy-style gets boring if that’s only thing (or the only 2 things) you’ll switch between. While you’re at it, get up and direct him to new positions that you might like to try out. He’ll be pleasantly surprised and permanently impressed!
4. Talk Dirty
We understand that everyone isn’t cut out for this, and it could be tricky territory. However, if you can manage to wrap your head around how to ace this – you have acquired the status of a Goddess!
5. Be Adventurous
If you’re aiming to take control and break the monotony, be anything but the woman who turns all the light off and wants missionary on the bed. Explore different rooms at home, do it in a car – let loose and live a little!
Any more ideas? Let us know in the comments below!
