Let’s admit it ladies, we all have been through this phase–and you should absolutely have no qualms in accepting that you felt sad when you got to know your ex got married. To a few, the world came tumbling down. But, it’s not the end of the world, woman! Your ex has moved on, and so should you. And trust us, we know it hurts–but the pain is temporary, and the relief is permanent. Here’s why you shouldn’t make it a big deal.
1. He’s not worth it!
Let bygones be bygones. We mean it. You broke up for a reason–a good enough reason. Don’t let that strong reason fade away, and affect your time and emotions that you can put to some better use. More than anything else, if he was worth all the worry, you wouldn’t leave him anyway. Think about it girl!
2. Discard that baggage
The heaviest of all baggages, is emotional baggage. And nothing drains you out worse than emotions do. For that, the first thing you need to stop doing is stalking your ex day in day out. The more you do it, the more you will be hurt. We understand you’re curious to see how good he and his wife look together, or if he went on a honeymoon to the same place he had promised to take you. Stalk him–if it’s a good dose of humour for you. Otherwise, it’s doing no good to you.
3. Thank your lucky stars!
On a lighter note, you should think about the cons of that relationship. Instead of feeling bad about him getting married, think about the girl who has to deal with all that you don’t have to now. If you do that, you will feel much more relieved. This thought will not only help you get over him, but also look ahead in life and treasure things that matter. Wish his wife good luck because she now has to deal with your ex forever.
4. Everything happens for a reason
Well, this is for real. Everything does happen for a reason. Let some time pass, and you will feel much more relieved and realise–it’s good to not have something that is not meant for you. Always remember, if it’s meant to be it will stay no matter what!
5. Prioritise your happiness
The equation and bond you had with your ex is done and dusted. It’s time for you to focus on your happiness and prioritise it. Once you’re happy in your space, you’ll learn to be happy for others as well. Yes, that includes your ex too. It’s always a great idea to forget and forgive.
6. Explore
So you were busy fixing a broken relationship and you never got to know what else was out there. Sure, you were loyal then–but now, it’s over and he’s moved on! So give others a chance, and explore love and life the way you want to. Who knows your perfect prince charming might be right next to you? So instead, you should thank your ex for leaving, or making room for your Mr Perfect!
We know it’s going to be an emotional turmoil for you. But trust us, if you keep feeling bad about your ex getting married, you’re going to miss out on many other things that actually matter. You don’t want that to happen, right?! Till the time you’re not over him, you won’t realise your worth. If you don’t realise your worth, no one else will. It’s great to be with someone without losing out on your self-worth. Be with someone who makes you feel wanted and life would be a la la land!
